At 34 Park Ave in Bay Shore, New York, a brick exterior wall hides a turquoise room with a disco ball hanging from the ceiling. Inside, 30 people are saying goodbye to the place that gave them shelter for 16 years.
“This building has been the lifeline for so many,” Samantha Kutcher, a member of the LGBT Network, said.
A rainbow flag made of wood panels hangs on the wall behind her and a sign that reads, “Farewell (for now) Bay Shore Center” anticipates a moment that has been in the making for two years.
On Friday, March 22, members of the LGBT Network, a social services organization serving the LGBT community of Long Island and Queens, hosted a party to say goodbye to one of its centers. Before closing last week, the center was a location where at least 1,000 people a month went for HIV testing and attended social events for empowerment and support.
The 16-year-old structure is being torn down this April to make room for 75 units of budget-friendly residential properties, which will be built by The D&F Development Crew and expected to be ready for use by May 2020.
“The housing is just geared toward LGBT friendly people and allies,” Lauren Corcoran-Doolin, vice president for external affairs for the LGBT Network, said. “Anyone can apply for housing there, but it would be well known that the housing is very accepting of the LGBT community, which would probably drive away people who didn’t support [the community] to begin with.”
“It’s so difficult for a lot of trans people even though we have protections to get affordable housing,” Kutcher said. “The housing here that they will have available will be a blessing to so many. It will be a clean place to live, a safe place to live, and they will be able to congregate with their own community.”
Attorney Paul Millus, however, believes that the standard will be impossible to regulate.
“LGBT friendly is not a statutory term, you can’t really define it. How friendly do you need to be to be LGBT friendly,” Millus said. “Sexual orientation can not be a standard by which someone gets housing or doesn’t get housing in the state of New York.”
Board members at the Town of Islip voted unanimously in favor of the project in September 2017. The rent for a unit in the new building is expected to range from $1,000 to $1,600 a month per unit. The average price for renting an apartment in Bay Shore is around $1,715 according to RentCafe, an online listing service for finding living rentals.
“We are going to be back here in two years, but where we are going we will be able to grow even more,” President and Chief Executive Officer of the LGBT Network, David Kilmnick, said with tears in his eyes. “We are going to be able to grow even stronger as a community.”
Several homeowners on the block have already expressed they are welcoming of the new project.
“There are few vacant buildings around here, anything that is going to bring more people and make this street more of a community is a good thing,” Justin Haus, a resident who lives across from the center, said. “I don’t have any problem with how the building will be LGBT friendly, whoever it is, they will be here and apart of the neighborhood.”
The Bay Shore center was first opened in 2002, but the network has existed since 1993 under the Long Island Gay and Lesbian Youth (LIGALY).
“Six years ago I came out as male to female transgender and I didn’t really have anyone to turn to,” Emily Iannielli, a member, said. “I found this beautiful place. I will be sad that [the center] is leaving Bay Shore for now.”
A new center will be built in Hauppauge for members of the Bay Shore center to continue to gather and is expected to be four times larger.
Republished from The Osprey.